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Originally Posted by 1stepatatime
Run, not walk but RUN from this therapist. From everything that you have written she seems to be a horrible therapist. She's hurting you and causing you unnecessary stress and duress. Clearly this is not good for you.. Thankfully you have good mentors at your school.. You know what makes a good therapist because that is what you are learning 😊😊. Ive never met you in person but I do know that you are a good person with a gentle spirit.. You do not need this BS... I hope that you do not go back to her and I also hope that you do not do this favor for her!
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Thank you for those kind words 1step
It it causing me great distress because I always feel judged and blamed.
I know you and others may not believe it but my t is a really good person, she doesn't mean to hurt me and perhaps I am sensitive. I bring out the worst in her. She has had a big loss lately and I am sure this is having an impact on her work.
In a way I am looking forward to doing t this favour because I will see her outside of session and know her a bit more. She wouldnt ask unless she had to. I am learning from the best, my tutors are really special and I have been incredibly blessed with them. I am going to be losing them this summer and I cant cope with losing them and t, that would be devastating. My relationship with t has been turbulent, what is most upsetting for me is that is not seeing it as I see it. She thinks everything is fine and doesn't understand why I am so upset. I know you have had some pretty bad ruptures with your t and so you have had your own upsets lately and so I thank you for your response
