Thread: Achilles heel?
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Old May 13, 2016, 06:54 PM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by hubieg View Post
I guess my question is what do you consider "creepy"?? As for my personal feeling as long as it is just between you and him, there is little or nothing I can think of that a couple could do that is "creepy".

What I have seen and read about many times is after the birth of a child, the woman kicks in to the role of "mommy" and good mommys dont do things like **** sex or give oral sex or anything like that. The fact of the matter though is that "mommys" are women too. There is nothing wrong with sexual relations between a husband and wife. There is nothing wrong with a mother even having "dark desires". All it says is that she is still a woman with the needs of a woman.

Maybe to you this is creepy also but I would have given anything to have been able to suckle at the breast of my wife after she gave birth. I cant think of a more intimate bonding experience than that. It never happened though because "mommys" dont do that.
The first thing I thought was creepy was this (I'm putting it in a trigger box 'cause it's embarrassing to me)
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Then after we got married he only kept after me to have a**l. I gave it the 'ol college try, but it is not for me. And I felt that he was so disappointed and I wondered if he was secretly gay for wanting that so badly. Plus it made me feel self conscious that again he didn't think I was right for him- like was I not tight enough?

I have no problems with seducing him. I know what he likes and I like to do it.

Does your wife have orgasms from sex- intercourse, foreplay? Could that be why she withdrew?
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