Complicated in reference to my boyfriend for me is just that he's well, complicated lol! He's got an extremely stressful job and he's got ADD to the max. He's an ego maniac with a self-esteem problem. I could go on...he's just complicated lol. But I like that about him. Its challenging. I can't control him like I did in my past relationships.

{and how hypersexuality tends to prevail in the absense of emotional intimacy and how hyposexuality tends to prevail in the presence of emotional intimacy}

That so explains my boyfriend! Wow....that actually really helps me. I think he's gone hypo because of our emotional intimacy, not to say that I'm hypersexual, its just that I enjoy it with him and never did before.

{'i bet you are getting tired i should let you go'} LOL!!! I do the same thing. I think, OMG he wants to get off the phone so he's trying to make it seem like I want to get off the phone. I read into things soooo bad. Just the other night I was complaining to my friend about him, how I didn't trust what he was doing or something, and he called me and explained why I shouldn't come over, it was because he was in a terrible mood and didn't want to subject me to it. But I read into everything and make it about me, something I'm really working on.

Maybe he's finally working through all the divorce issues because he likes you and wants to clear up the past? When I got with my boyfriend, before I'd have sex with him, there were some painful things from my past that I was finally willing to work on, so that I could really be "available" to my boyfriend. With past relationships, I didn't realize how my past was such an issue, but with my bf I really wanted to make sure I was walking into the relationship free from the crud in my past.

I think these insecurities will pass.....it really sounds to me like you guys like each other a lot so you're both worried about what the other one thinks. People pointed out to me that my boyfriend had insecurities too, and they've come as we've progressed.

I like that you call him Mr. Man. I need to come up with a nickname for my boyfriend tee hee!