(((((((almedafan)))))))

Let me see if I understand. You don't like to cook. Your father, brother, and husband hold this against you bigtime. It is their number one complaint against you. Almedafan, this boggles my mind. Of all the insignicant things to not like about a person, they choose cooking???? I hope you won't take offense if I say that these guys are totally messed up? OK, that is just plain strange. I know tons of people who don't like to cook. Big deal. And I don't try to correlate it with their ethnicity. All I can say is you must be pretty amazing and perfect if the worst they can find to not like about you is your dislike of cooking.

I am sorry things are not going well with your T. Do you think things will improve? I hope so, since I know you have shared much with him. But sometimes there comes a time when a T has outlived his usefulness to us and can no longer help in the way we need. Maybe the client outgrows the T. Maybe there is a rupture. I hope you can repair things, but if they don't get better, just remember, you are not stuck with him. You can leave whenever you want and seek care that will help you.

I am sorry you are so hurt and miserable. Please post again and let us know how you are doing.