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Originally Posted by Wandering Soul
I'm just cautious because I'm not sure about this. In the movies and series the word "nerd" seems to have a negative connotation, that's at least what I concluded. Someone called me once a nerd and I didn't know if it's a compliment or insult!! I wouldn't use these two terms (why not using the word smart or intelligent ... etc), but since they are being used, I'm trying to know which is for which.
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I distinctly recall both of these words being an insult, but I'm obviously not real young & hip either.
To answer your question, I would say that either word could be used as an insult
or in a joking manner. It depends upon the tone in their voice, social cues and vibes sent out. If it was said in a chat room, and you couldn't pick up on physical cues, then you will have to look back upon the entire conversation and make an educated guess from there.
Imo, your best bet is simply asking that person if it was meant as a joke or if they were serious. Sorry that our language and it's usage is so confusing ~ very best wishes sent your way!
