My T properly shared his feelings for the first time in my last session. It was amazing - really changed things for me and made it a lot easier to connect with him. Some of the things he said have played on me since then - he did say he worried about me, but I find that hard to believe - or rather, theres so many types of 'worry' the statement doesn't effect me until I get clarification of worry type! But I did make him feel bad, and I hate that. I know it was inevitable, but really the last thing I want to do is make him feel bad, so I keep thinking about it. He said a lot of things that day that really blew my mind though, so its all mixed up together.
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