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Old May 14, 2016, 06:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Waterbear View Post
Sounds like you really managed to get a lot spoken about during your session, that is great. To feel some movement forwards must be a relief for you, even if it does bring up a lot more to be worked on or through. I understand your problem with controlling the relationships. I do this in all walks of my life and I also withdraw if I cannot control, it is a form of control in itself. Giving up this means I am vulnerable and that is a place I am not ready to go to yet but know I will have to one day. Do you think you could go to that place with your T?
I'm really trying to get to that place with my T but it's hard. I feel like whenever I take a small step in that direction the tiniest thing can set me back (like T not reacting in the appropriate way when I teared up). I guess I just need to be patient.
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Waterbear