My fiancée told me that his ex considered him very bad in bed and on top of it he supposedly had ED and had hard time maintain erection and that overall his ex had major issues with him not being able to satisfy her in bed.

That's what he told me when we started considering becoming intimate. We wanted to make sure we discussed if we have any sex related issues, to avoid future problems. I told him I don't care if he has ED or is bad in bed as long as we are affectionate otherwise I can't care less.

Well he is very very good in bed and he is yet to have one instance of ED or not satisfying me. He was in fact surprised he has no problems with ED and that he in fact can satisfy a woman.

The case is and it is probably one or the only reason: he is comfortable content and not afraid.

he was terrified of his ex), his ex was abusive ( including physical abuse- documented), had several MI diagnosis), was periodically hospitalized, but flat refused to take Meds, as she didn't want to gain weight and refused to go to therapy, he is not a matcho guy but is rather a softy and can be a bit of a door mat which she took advantage of but probably found unattractive, she also wanted him to be matcho rough in bed and demanded things he just couldn't do and has no interest in ( neither do I), plus she did things like phone sex but didn't consider it cheating.

Overall they just weren't compatible outside of her just being a scary person ( she still harasses him even though he pays alimony as he supposed to- she also refused to work her whole life and still doesn't). I honestly think he has PTSD after his marriage. Kids don't even speak to her, she physically assaulted one of them ( after they became adults).
Their sex issue was just tied to other issues.

I believe bad sex or lack of it stems from other issues. I don't believe people have this great relationship but one wouldn't have sex

There is usually more to the story

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