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Originally Posted by velcro003
I know logic doesn't come into play, but that's all I have! Plus, don't you think 18 years of parenting sort of outweigh 4 months in the NICU? I told my T that while I don't remember much of my childhood, from what I do remember is that I never went to either of my parents when upset (this is me being older, after 10ish or so-don't remember much before then). She said that because my attachment was disrupted, I probably didn't think I could trust them, but that seems a bit outrageous that those sort of things can be cemented in the brain so early on.
I know, but I find it so hard to believe:
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If you didnt go to your parents when you were upset, then you werent parented. I thought that parents kissing a boo-boo to make it all better was just a meme - like people didnt really do those things. But i think they do. I think they do show affection. Just not to me. Thats what non-attachment is like for me.