Wants2Fly, thank you for the imput. That is the reason I haven't called the recruiter. I don't want to add more saddness to my husband. I wish I knew who to call though.
Shaddix, you really struck a cord with me. In a good way that is. I have since the day our daughter was born worried about the way she views life and relationships. I most deffinatly don't want her to have a life like mine. I want her to grow to be a strong loving and yet independent woman.
Thanks to everyone that has helped so far. Please continue to add advise. I would really like to hear it.