T does share her feelings, I liked it at first but now I would say it's too much. Often she will say her feelings about me and lately they haven been very negative and hearing them can have a bad affect in me. My ego strength has improved a lot since seeing her. Now I tell her that that is her counter transference and that's what supervision is for.
I always ask t how she is at the stat of a session and she will say I am feeling good/ bad, this happened blah blah blah!
When she asks me how I am I then say ok, she will always say I am ok, what does that mean and then get annoyed, she will say do you want a menu and she pulls out her feeling menu till I pick one. I am beginning to think I just have no words to describe my feelings with t. I generally have no issue describing my feelings anywhere else but in therapy with her.
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