Anyway, I have now told everybody I know and everybody who would listen how unhappy and dangerous this marriage is. They all think I am the Boy Who Cried Wolf.

Whether or not I have BPD, my husband is the trigger. I need to eliminate the trigger.

Tomatoes are great and everybody loves them. But some people are deathly allergic. They have to stay away from tomatoes.

I have to stay away (at least from the bedroom) from my husband. And if that applies to all men, then so be it.