Hello all of the advice is good (((BEAR))). I have to take stool softeners as well from time to time maybe 2 times per week, because of hormones and medication and they help tremendously, to help you go and keep the hemorrhoids at bay as well. I dont think getting blew off was appropriate from your Dr either but sometimes you have to be assertive to get the help you need. Try not to overdo laxatives when taking Psych Meds. a stool softener or fiber therapy is much safer than laxatives. There are moistened pads and other creams that can help the burning and itching and inflammation you are feeling at this time, if you can not get in to see the Dr immediately. I am sure you are very uncomfortable at this time, and I hope you get some relief soon. There is nothing embarassing about needing help for your private areas, medical advice is always the right thing to get since you may even need an antibiotic if things are further along than you think to clear things up a bit. Take care. (((FUZZY))). Soidhonia