First off talking about a Fanstay, is very hard for some woeman, when they were growing up, even me, my paretns never talked about "sex" it was just something that went along with marriage, but in today's society, men and weoman need much more than that to make a marrieage work..

something else you might look into, is there anything that is causing you or her "Undue" stress, bills ect... That might make the other not want the other..

I know it will be hard to "cut off" all online sex stuff, but for your marriages sake I would try very very hard.

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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