It's been a week since the Mother's Day incident. He's been sleeping in the other room. I've been telling him I'll have to get up the nerve to get the divorce, but wished he would just get on board with it.

Yesterday, I went away for the day and visited girlfriends.

I came home and he had done things around the house that needed fixing. He never does anything around the house until I am filing for divorce over the sex issue and hysterical! We sleep in separate bedrooms, not fighting or being angry, just hardly speaking.

This morning he slips into my bed waking me and tries to initiate sex. Again, only something he will do after this level of hysteria.

I told him no sex. I will not go through this cycle again. I pointed out how this is his pattern.

He said "Why do I just love you so much?"
I said, "Why are you so scared of me?"
He said "I am scared by the power you have over me because I love you so much."