I just refriended my life-long friend. We have had several periods of years of 'never speaking again' over our lives. Neither of us have been diagnosed necessarily with anything, but she's definitely toxic. She has a heart of gold and can be a great friend, but she can also say things that no friend would ever say. She has had problems with all her other friends, too.

We talked about the last thing she did to me that caused me to defriended her. She could not see how cruel and insensitive it was. I explained it to her about how I felt. She said "I can see your point, but I just have no empathy for you because you have so much going for you and I am so jealous of you."

She also told me she has a hard time separating fantasy from reality. She said at a concert she thinks the singer sees her in the crowd and is singing just to her and that he has feelings for her.