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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
I know you and others may not believe it but my t is a really good person, she doesn't mean to hurt me and perhaps I am sensitive. I bring out the worst in her.
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This really struck me as something a person in an abusive relationship might say in order to justify staying in that relationship (or to justify the other person's behavior).
ETA: This is not meant to judge you. I think that if it is, in fact, true that you "bring out the worst in her", then she's letting her countertransference interfere with your therapy. I don't know you or her, but the relationship sounds really unhealthy for you and I can feel how painful it is.