Anichka - Although your husband lied to you, I think it was innocent. He did not want to upset you by telling you the truth. I've been suffering with depression for most of my life and recently find myself lying to my wife. e.g. I tell her I'm feeling OK when in fact I feel like ***t. I only lie to her because I don't want to upset her. She already has enough to deal with in handling my depression... Your husband sounds like a caring person - go easy on him.