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Old May 15, 2016, 06:01 PM
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She's so passive aggressive and unreasonable. If she wasn't also my best friend I'd tell her to stuff it where the sun don't shine. She makes me so angry and at the same time so upset and hurt.

One of our dogs accidentally hurt her by pulling really hard on the leash. My friend planted her foot and wound up hurting her knee so badly that she's been delayed in going back to work after a workplace injury to the same knee. She made (another) passive aggressive comment about how the dog is "costing her $800 a month" and I simply pointed out that what happened was an accident and the dog didn't mean to hurt her.

If looks could kill... She gave me this look like I was the most horrible person on the earth, scoffed at me, and said with such disdain, "are you serious?"

She ranted about her precarious work situation and then tried to make me feel guilty for having parents that can afford to help me in my much needed time of need. The decision to ask my parents for help was not an easy one, that's for damn sure, and she knows that.

She stopped talking to me and got up and went to bed while we were in the middle of watching a show without even saying a word.

All because I said the dog didn't do it on purpose??

I honestly do not know how to deal with someone who sees everything as an attack and is ALWAYS defensive. Her behavior really bothers me, but if I say something about it, I'm the asshole.

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My thought is your room mate already had a bad knee! If she knew she had the problem she should have just gone with the dog while telling him to heel or stop! My experience with people that are automatically on the defense is that they know they are wrong! Hey I could be wrong about that maybe she is just totally insecure. Im on your side, you are the the A-hole!
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