I am sorry you are hurting. I wonder if you discuss with your therapist details of developing relationship.

For example when you started talking to this person did you tell her exactly what he says and what you say etc? It's almost like needing a life coach to guide you through. Somebody who would not be afraid to say it how it is and wouldn't let you rationalize.

What does your t say about this? Also I wonder do you have list of red flags and deal breakers? Things that you know for sure don't work for you? Also can you talk to your t about how to recognize signs that man is into you. Something you should look for.

I feel that people who don't have role model of healthy relationship ( I can relate, I didn't have it either, my parents are not role models in regards to relationships) need someone to guide them towards it.



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