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Old May 16, 2016, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
Its always a risk seeing a wounded healer. I think once they are aware of their wounds they are more inclined to be gifted healers but when they are absolutely blinded by them, thats when it is dangerous to practise therapy. I think my t has awareness but she often ignores it. I am sorry you had two bad experiences, it took a lot of courage to still believe there are good t s out there.
I don't believe that there is such a thing as a wounded healer, except as an archetype. Jung was explicit in stating that anyone who identifies with an archetype is in deep **** and mentally unbalanced. It's the sign of an inflated ego. When you think about it, your therapist rewards you when you lower yourself, see how you have erred, and lap up her wisdom. She punishes you when you question her. How is that healing?