exactly!- what pachyderm said! I do that very often-- think it depends on the stresses of that particular day..... today -- feeling quite scattered.....

It's hard to not take things overly personal, I know that for sure, but Fuzzy--please try not to make it all about yourself-- it could be the other person is in a fragile place/time and just not "up to par"..... you are not always the cause..... please repeat after me-- "I am not always the cause, I am NOT always the cause-- people don't nexessarily do things just to upset ME"......

wish you some inner peace and it's great that you are putting words to what's going on inside-- that is a step towards change. (least, that's what I've been told)

mandy