Actually, if I may reply to myself here, I am unfortunately not as unaffected by gender as I ought to be. I always take it for granted that anybody who is of one of the two traditional genders is automatically going to be unable to understand me in certain ways, whereas somebody of the other of the two genders may or may not be able to relate to some aspects. This is an academic discussion because who cares other than me, but it might be something to work on, because rationally there should be no such difference. Or maybe it would be better to work on the misplaced notion that others have an interest in understanding me, regardless of their genital category.