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Old May 16, 2016, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted by BrazenApogee View Post
I had a very bad T who had serious boundary problems that made me feel guilty for not buying him presents like his other clients. I'm glad I got away before it got worse than it did. It was very hard because I was attached. I found a good T with good boundaries. I miss the other T, and I learned alot for him, but I am still very glad I got away.

I am glad you got away too, wow, the guilt trip for not buying presents! I am shocked at that. Talk about needing clients to love you, what an ego.
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Originally Posted by healed84 View Post
To preface this.. I know t's family from the very small school our kids go to, and dance studio. One day I was at school after hours, doing parent teacher fellowship stuff and t's daughter was there having a band lesson. T came to pick her up, and times got messed up, so she wasn't done but t had to get back, and mom wasn't available. So he asked me if i could bring her home. Wasn't a problem for me as they live close to school, and I have been to their house before (minus t being there) After I did it, t asked me if I felt put out by doing it and if I felt weird and the answers were all no.
Interestingly enough, with all the times that t and I see each other out of session, we rarely interact. Just a quick wave or smile at each other. It has never affected out t/client relationship.
Mona, I will say t and I have awesome relationship and I am able to call him out in stuff as well as he. You have talked about the rocky relationship with your t. If you have any doubts about doing the favor, you feel uncomfortable you should follow your gut.

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Sounds like your t really took the time to process that with you in session healed. Although he had no choice but to ask a favour he really thought about you and the consequences to you, sounds like an excellent t!
That would be very strange seeing ts daughter all of the time, I am glad you are both able to manage it in the best way for you.
Although I did that favour for t today she didn't process it in session and I really needed to because it does change things between us and I am left wondering of I am a friend or a client or what am I to t?
She offered a discount on this evenings session but I didn't take it because even that is crossing boundaries. I am now confused with it all!

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