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Originally Posted by Out There
It wasn't really a favour for T , but he emailed asking if I could come at a later time for my appointment. I guessed he had another client to fit in who could only make the earlier appointment. I didn't mind and prefer later appointments anyway , so I said yes. I did like him knowing me well enough that I probably wouldn't mind , that was a nice feeling.
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My bad T would do this repeatedly. The first time it was ok. The second time was kinda ok. The third time I never accepted the new time and never went back. I felt he was giving away my appointments to someone else and didn't like me. It was good in a way because it gave me a way out, because I was too attached to do it on my own. He also called his clients his "friends", initiated physical contact without my consent or ever talking about it, and spent entire sessions talking about his own problems (or parts of sessions).
Luckily I found a new T who never changes the appointment, has very good boundaries, doesn't talk about himself unless I ask and only briefly, and is generally a very good T.