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Originally Posted by Clara22
I think you can acknowledge your flaws and embrace them, and, at the same time, be committed to your improvement. They are not mutually exclusive. On the contrary, accepting and loving oneself eases the process of change for the better. Particularly regarding "not caring". As you said, you would like to have others' attention, love, and consideration. We all want and need that. OK, reciprocally, the other people expect the same from you, otherwise they will grow tired of you sooner or later. Reciprocity is part of human evolution.
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Thank you for your answear.
I know it very well, the theory.
Let me just say one thing, I sincerely believe that's the rule, independently of me doing or not the right thing. And now that I think about it (and I am not sure I did or did not realize this before) that is probably my biggest fear and the thing that I always expect to happen. I think people won't like me and if they do they will quickly come to their senses. So I am aware all the time about the signals people do that show that and when it happens I just step asside because I hate beeing a burden.