I don't feel like I am married. My husband can't find a job and I am the financial provider. I come home from work and the house is not clean, dirty dishes in the sink, no dinner, nothing. Instead, I am asked what's for dinner? By the way, my husband can cook. He has done nothing all day but sleep. If he is not sleeping, he is on the computer chatting with random people or people on Facebook.
I come home, wash the dishes and make dinner for the family. We have three children. When they n Ed anything they come to me. I feel exhausted and tired of doing both parental roles as well as marital roles. I feel used. I don't feel respected because he constantly flirts with other women and I know it. He is more concerned with how other females are doing than me his wife. It hurts. I am so hurt and used. I don't feel married. Am I being selfish becUse I am posting this to random people?