Thanks for your input. He knows I have been frustrated and upset. He makes a joke and says he can't do it all. The housecleaning, cooking, laundry, etc. when he knows he does none of these. He has always been the breadwinner for our family. We moved and he has had trouble finding work. He was also told he was BP, but not sure. He takes his Meds and then he doesn't. I get mad when he doesn't because we start all over again. I say we because I have told him it affects us all, not just him. Sometimes, I feel he can't get over himself. His life is about him not us anymore. I don't feel married. Just going through the motions and feeling the hurt and burden.