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Originally Posted by eskielover
Or maybe now that you really think your something you are becoming an egotistical jerk who thinks that the only thing of value in life is wild passionate love because you have never experienced it & now that you think you are qualified to experience it you throw a true caring relationship away for a dream.
If I were your wife & you changed into this I would dump you & go let you chase your imagined dream.....
Sounds to me more like the guys typical mid life crisis IMO.
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I was thinking something like this, he settled but then after awhile continued working on himself and now sees himself as out of her league. Thinking he is too attractive for her or never really found her physically attractive but before felt like he didn't have a chance with more physically attractive girls so again he just settled for her because he didn't want to risk being alone forever and hopped on the first girl who would take him at the time.
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Originally Posted by TooManyDays
Maybe the quintessential lifelong monogamous relationship is just a totally false ideal? Maybe the best thing to do is have multiple relationships simultaneously or in sequence. I hate rules.
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Common theme it seems nowadays and I think it's sort of weak willed personally to require multiple partners and overall is shallow to want to have multiple partners. Then again a lot of people in the name of being *open-minded* and *un-shallow* is sort of a huge joke. Others will try to say to be monogamous is unnatural and that it's common to sleep with multiple partners. Which I guess if you want you can go ahead and sleep with multiple people but don't expect it to actually be fulfilling like a lot of the greasy hipsters and mass amounts of sleep-arounds say.