you have made some very hard decsions.. But I applaued you in making them.

Question ?? Can your "expense" survive if your wife looks for a differnt job that can make her happie, and you happie??? Just a thought. I do not like telling or even asking this type of question, but, if she is so unhappy, then that is something you both need to talk about, and it has to be your decsion not her parents..

When the youngest child leaves home, it is a very hard thing for the parents to let go, so you may have to start sticking up for her, if she needs it. ONly she can tell you she is not happy, and only she can tell you that she does not want her parents to run her life, that she wants to be your wife, no longer there "Babie"
It might be hard on her at first, but it is a step we all must take. It will also depend on how mature you both are to walk away from them......... It will take a great deal of willpower, and more engery than you think. But in the end it will all be worth it,,, because You will have a wife that is happie and in turn can make you happier.....

<font color=purple>The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.
- G.K. Chesterton
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