With all due respect, if her behavior is so acceptable, then by all means, accept it.


I merely suggest you stop trying to justify it, because acceptable behavior needs no justification as its acceptable.


I however am human and will feel the full range of my emotions, react accordingly AND THEN move on toward forgiveness..


That's the natural order of things, it's the human condition, we don't just get to skip the bad parts, its not realistic.

If it were,this thread would never have been posted and people across the world wouldn't need therapists to help them process bottled up emotions before or after they explode.


Use me as an example...


If I never got really really mad and really really sad that my ex beat me to a pulp, I would never have harnessed that negative energy and used it for leaving him.


I would've justified and forgiven,rinse, wash, repeat cycle, till I had no more bones to bruise and break.


So, negative emotions do have a place and a use, or we would not feel them at all.


But, you're clearly happy with this lady whom you praise (for no reason at all, come on BE realistic) so there's no logical need for this thread, because you've received the reality check you requested and gracefully rejected it.


As you've said, to each their own.


Take care of yourself, seriously