Hi there and welcome to the forum!

Wow...unprofessional doesn't even come close!

I can really empathise with you, I have been in similar situations where I have had the urge to hit out at my husband because of my anger issues. He has been to a therapist or two to get support for being my carer. He refuses to see anyone that talks negatively of me because he says they clearly are not understanding the issues that we, and especially me, have. It is not at all helpful for a professional to act like that. Their job is not to judge anyone but to try to offer explanations of behaviour and try to help a client find better ways of dealing with things.

I would be highly offended too by this. What did your partner think of you being described in that way??