It is understandable that you wish to share an experience of losing your virginity with someone who never had sexual relations before as you would feel less anxious about pleasing her or messing it up. That and it can feel more powerful for the two of you.

The best chance to find someone like that would be within the spiritual and religious community that supports sex after marriage. You may have to dig a little to find the right girl, but I suggest you go for the early twenties as they may still be a virgin. Just know that the average age to lose one's virginity is around 17. You may find that even if a woman has been with another man, they could have been in a long term relationship and that she is not as experienced as one would think. I know plenty of women like that.

You are not alone, and that shared the same attitude and thoughts. They all wanted someone who had their virginity intact for several different reasons, and it did boil down to wanting to be the first for the sake of not embarrassing themselves and not having to live up to the men before them. And if you have many women around you from your area, then maybe you need to step away from that scene so you can explore other types out there.