hey chris i dont know how to use words that she will listen to . i want help i really do.i hate how i have been lately.she has noticed also . when she brought up talking about my farther i tried to tell her how hard it was because we disagree so much about my parents . i try to tell her how horrible (I) was to him but i dont remember her ever just letting me talk to her about it without her jumping on the you were just a kid band wagon . this is not the case. and i dont think i will ever be able to heal from this without her ever seeing or understanding my part in any of this . i was horrible right from the beginning and that didnt help. i was overwhelming for the mother . how can i talk about the relationship with my parents when it is so painful and my T argues with me