Yes. I've suggested this multiple times. She says she's willing to go if I need her to, but seems reluctant. I think she doesn't want to really dig into the truth. She sees my dissatisfaction as my issue to deal with, not as a problem we need to solve together. She says she's mostly content and just wants me to be more engaged and happier. But she says this is my problem and I need to make a decision about what I want. She doesn't seem interested in changing anything about herself. I think she feels it's not justified when she's perfectly happy. It's probably unfair for me to say these things since you can't get her perspective on it, but that's how the situation feels to me.