My old T was very reassuring and it seemed to be working with me. Hearing her saying things was slowly filtering into me. It came up with New T in the beginning and she said that she would work in this way but I don't hear it at all. I am in the process of trying to talk to her about this but it is harder than it sounds so may take a couple of weeks.

Does your T reassure you or do they wait for you to be able to reassure yourself?