I only really experienced it one time, and in actuality, he wasn't angry "for" me. He was directly angry at one of my abusers who he actually met with. This particular person had taken it upon himself to invite himself up to see me, and my therapist had him meet me at his office where he could be sure police were nearby (at 2AM) rather than risk this person showing up on my doorstep without someone to intervene for my safety. I don't actually remember that much about that meeting: I was in a severely depressive daze. But I do remember the abuser trying to make me responsible for not protecting myself. My therapist stopped him right then and there, asked me to step out of the room, and spent a good half hour alone with him. His quiet fury was clearly apparent when I left that room. I don't know what was said, but that man never bothered me again.