When we first got married he was not like that at all. He was a devoted husband and father to my step children. When we had children together, you could not have asked for a better father or husband. Something changed in him, he said at one time he didn't know who I was based on a child custody issue with my son. Basically, my son wanted to live with his dad and I had a hard time letting him go. My husband could not understand this. There were some hard times we went through with the exhusband and his wife. My husband thought I had issues with not getting over the divorce. But, I told him, my problem was the mental abuse my ex gave me for 9 years. Making me feel not good enough for my kids or anything. He treated me like I was stupid. I have always been insecure and he knows that. However, his actions of not friending me on facebook, not acknowledging me as his wife at all on social media bothers me. His talking to other women, past girlfriends makes me even more insecure, however, he thinks I have issues. I do, but this does not help.
My husband now, did not treat me that way until he was diagnosed with BP. Now, it is like he has to figure out himself before he can work on our relationship. I am not sure if I can wait that long. Not feeling married at all.