I think other. I am deeply attached to my T but also very involved in my own life. I can't say I think about her constantly or obsess about her although I do think about our relationship a lot. In part this is missing her and in part its because she is truly serving as the model for my own inner parent. So I ask myself " what would T say/do" because she is much more compassionate towards me than I am towards myself. Sometimes I panic about our relationship but in general fear of abandonment/rejection is a part of ALL my important relationships...
So I guess I'd say I love my T very much and our relationship is very important to me... But its not constant or obsessive either...