I am devastated. Someone within my inner circle said I should never raise any children (biological or adopted) because of my mental illness. He added afterwards that will never find love or happiness if I were to marry. Over the years, I have been so close to him. He never once said anything so cruel before. Though he said similar things about himself a few times. Now his attitude has changed for the worst, and it is hard to let go of an assessment like that.

I cannot stop crying. Why is there such a strong stigma against those with mental illness? I have always worked with children, and everyone said I would be a great mother. Being a parent is one of the few major goals in my life, and that has motivated me to care for any child that needs love. This past year has been painful and rough for me, and this does not help. Why would he say this to me?

Edit: I forgot to add that he said, "this is just my opinion." and ended the conversation altogether.