I agree...he's being an ********* .

I avoided psychiatrists like the plague for 15 years because I was afraid of getting diagnosed and of the stigma attached to mental illness. I do have my share of failed relationships, which now looking back I have to take ownership for my part in...but I also have an amazing 16 year old son. He's well adjusted, well mannered, does great in school, has a great social life. I couldn't be more proud of him and people often tell me what an amazing kid he is and that I did a good job raising him. So we can absolutely be great parents. Try not to let him get to you. Hopefully he will realize he's been an ***** and apologize for his ignorance.