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Originally Posted by Talthybius
Are you depressed or do you have a crush? Two different things in my mind.
The way I view it, you need to be accepted or rejected. Take action, and then there's less to worry/lose your mind about.
The crush, you can work around. The depression, not so sure.
I have to admit that my own grades have also started suffering from a crush where I did take action, did get rejected, and still obsessing about. I guess it's like any other addiction: tv, gaming, cell phone; you need to push it away for a certain time slot to get in quality work.
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Thank you for the reply.
Yes, I have depression. Have been suffering for two years.
Yes, I have a crush. Had it since December or so.
I do some gaming, i admit, but I am sure it does not affect my work. Anyway, my interest has faded a bit, can't really enjoy gaming too much for some reason. TV only sometimes in the evening, and I use my phone within reasonable limits. I have other hobbies as well, like going to work out, watching movies, reading and doing archery. Lately, I started showing little interest in all. Not sure why, just feel like it's not worth it. I can't focus on the task everytime, because i am always thinking about what and why I feel certain feelings.
Depression really takes its toll on me, and my recent crush just doesn't make things better, naturally. I shall try to do as you say. At best, I will have gained a girlfriend and things might improve. At worst, she will reject me, but then I will be able get over her with a clear conscience.
Just not sure what do to or how to broach the subject. I am so distracted about all of these that I have to read 10 pages from my history book to understand one word.