I voted constantly thinking. My T and I are very close and have agreed to keep in contact after (though the relationship would look different). So, I do partially think of her when I want to do something nice for a friend (i'm a giver), because I factor her in to who I want to chat with or gift that day. It probably doesn't help that my circle of people in my life (fam and friends) is only limited to around 8 on average, so the people cycle back up to the top pretty often lol.