Hey Almeda,

I'm so sorry you are hurting right now. And right before your Dad comes, T's timing is pretty crummy. I would be upset too & definitely hurt.

Remember how separate from T I felt a few weeks ago? I'm beginning to realize that even if he doesn't get it exactly 100% of the time, that doesn't mean I have to hate him. (Well, not all the time anyway).

Do you think this might be an opportunity to work through those other relationships you discussed?

I hope you can bring these different perceptions of the relationship to his consciousness...

Take gentle care.