That guy is not a friend at all, I would not want any thing to do with him, People can be so cruel and not care how there words effect us and some people do know they are hurting us and just dont care, He sounds like that type, As the saying goes with friends like those who needs enemies, Find some new friends that are positive and actualy are going to build you up instead of pulling you down, I am sorry I know it hurts, I have had alot of people put me down and hurt me also, I just dont have any thing to do with them any more, I have let alot of people go in my life, If they are toxic and negative they are eliminated just like that