Artchic .. What kind of advice are you wanting?

Seems you disagree with most everything anyone offers out of kindness.. and it is kindness( not judgement or being bully types) ... people are taking time to respond and from the looks of it solid common sense advice.

If your just venting ? well that's great too .. maybe give us a heads up and let us know that, then we can either offer advice or just drop some virtual hugs.

You bash men and anyone here that offers help with one broad stroke and I just don't understand that

Of course there are untrustworthy people... that is life on this spinning rock.