Any decision I make I think how would I feel if the situation was reversed. We made a commitment to each other we promised to be faithful. We both agreed if we ever wanted out we just would say the word and walk. It's too easy to divorce so why cheat and be THAT person? And part of mine has nothing to do with anything other than I watched my mom cheat on my dad for years. I saw what it did to my dad and my siblings. I won't ever do that.