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Originally Posted by galeckifan
I am so Upset, I just got a FB message from my pastor saying we need to talk tomorrow night, so I said what about? and he said a couple things, rides to and from church and how you get offended when youre not invited somewhere with someone. I never told him anything about me being offended about not being invited places. So someone must have been talking about me to him and I want to know who and why they seem to feel the need to talk crap about me to him but cant say it to my face.
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first you are here talking about the lady that has chosen not to be a friend to you and kind of "talking crap" about her yourself so "...lest you be judged..."
Second "you get offended when you're not invited" that is a fact not crap. It is not a statement that is an attack but sounds to me like they were speaking out of concern for the situation. I don't know about others here but fact is I have the right to choose who I invite anywhere I want and I am under no obligation to invite you anywhere outside of if I've made the promise to do so somewhere along the way. I think you assume you're more than you are to this lady.
On top of this, the way that you speak about the situation and your repeated posts related to this one lady comes off as really kind of obsessive. Considering that, I don't doubt that some of this makes it's way into your daily interactions with people and therefore her. your very obsessive concern for being considered a friend by this woman could easily be part of the reason she has decided to keep her distance.
I think if you do not have a T, you should get one, and if you do, you should talk about these things with him/her in therapy to be honest.