My t will ask me t take a moment and to trust what come up for me at the start of sessions. We both close our eyes and then I will start talking about what I need to. As a t I start by asking the client how they would like to use their session and if they had anything they would like to look at or work on.
Could you discuss this with your t and maybe ask if it could be more predictable or planned. Perhaps it's a communication issue and your t thinks you would like him to lead but in fact you would like to decide on what you talk about.

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