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Originally Posted by ValentinaVVV
I think that thinking you were "perfect" people is the flaw. No one is perfect.
That is idealization and no one can live up to that.
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I agree with this although it is understating things. thinking someone is perfect from the get go is the opposite of acceptance, which in every relationship, is required. Accepting someone is has flaws and imperfections is leaving room for things ot change, to go wrong and deal with them while if you think or view someone is perfect, it sets you and the person themselves up for failure.